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The assessment

Around twelve minutes. Five short sections, starting with safety, then what keeps happening, you, change, and where you are leaning. Answer for how things are now, not how they were at their best or worst. You can do this without an account; your answers stay on this page unless you make one.

Safety · step 1 of 50 of 43 answered
  1. 1. I feel frightened of my partner, or of what they might do.
  2. 2. My partner has hurt me physically, or threatened to.
  3. 3. My partner checks my phone, messages, location or spending.
  4. 4. I change what I say or do to avoid my partner's reaction.
  5. 5. My partner controls money in a way that leaves me without enough, or having to ask.
  6. 6. My partner has threatened to harm themselves, me, the children or a pet if I leave.
  7. 7. Things have been getting worse over the last year.
  8. 8. I worry about the effect all this is having on the children.

You can skip ahead without answering everything, but the picture will be thinner. Nothing is saved until you have an account; if you do, your answers are saved against a random key, never your name.

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