Articles

Plain answers to the questions people type late at night, each one a way into something more useful.

• Is this normal?Do all couples argue like this?
• Yourself and decidingAm I the toxic one?
• Change and second chancesCan a controlling partner change?
• Is this abuse?Can men be victims of domestic abuse?
• Children and familyWhat do I tell the children?
• Money, home and the lawCan I get legal aid for domestic abuse?

Written for one situation at a time. If one of these is yours, it will read like it.

• Is this normal?Is my relationship over, or am I just tired?
• Yourself and decidingI feel trapped in my relationship
• Is this abuse?I think I might be the abusive one
• Children and familyShould I stay for the children?
• Money, home and the lawI want to leave but we have a mortgage
• Staying safe and leavingHow to leave when you have nowhere to go

Ordinary relationship life: weekends, distance, money, in-laws, doubt. Useful on its own, and honest about where ordinary stops.

• Everyday relationshipsHow to argue well
• Yourself and decidingShould we try counselling?
• Change and second chancesHow to rebuild trust after it breaks
• Children and familyDealing with difficult in-laws
• Money, home and the lawArguing about money all the time
• Everyday relationshipsHow to make long distance work