Understand your relationship. Decide what happens next.
Whether things are hard, stuck or just quieter than they used to be: honest questions, a profile that changes as you do, and short practical modules for whatever comes next. Private, at your own pace.
Free to start. No name needed. How we keep this private.
Five lenses, one honest picture
The next step is easier once you can see the whole relationship. The questions look at it five ways, starting with whether you feel safe, and everything in the library helps with one of them.
Do you feel safe with your partner, and are any children safe? Always the first question.
What keeps happening between you, and is it the ordinary kind of difficult or something with a known shape?
Who are you in this relationship and outside it, and what do you bring to it?
What is changing, on either side, and is it the kind that lasts?
Where are you leaning, and what would the next step be?
How it works
- 1 · Free, no account neededAnswer the questions
Around twelve minutes. You get a profile across the five lenses, not a verdict, and the free modules that fit it.
Start the assessment - 2 · FreeMake a space of your own
Keep your profile, save pages and come back to it. A passphrase is enough: no name, and no email if you would rather not.
Make a free spaceGo to your space - 3 · Membership, from £3.25 a monthKeep going, month by month
The whole library, your log, a monthly check-in, goals you review, and your profile over time. Pause or cancel whenever you like.
What membership includes
Free, always
These modules are open to everyone, with or without an account. Safety and getting help never sit behind a payment.
Good places to start
Membership
For whatever comes next: making it stronger, rebuilding, or moving on. The whole library, a log you keep for as long as it helps, a monthly check-in, goals you set, and your profile over time.
£4.99 a month, or £39 a year (£3.25 a month). A neutral name on your statement. Pause or cancel any time.
Someone sent you here?
If a friend passed you a link or a code, they can't see whether you used it, and neither can we. Nothing about you is stored until you choose to make an account. You can pass it on too.